Are you having trouble reaching orgasm? A guide for women.
September 29, 2013 - No Comments
Orgasm is a much more automatic response for men than for women.
‘Coming’ isn’t that easy, if you’re a woman. Nearly all men can climax without difficulty, but women just aren’t built that way. Unfortunately, not everyone knows this all-important fact – even in 2011.
This is partly because books, films and – most of all – internet porn paint a picture in which today’s females are hot and raring to go, and in an almost constant state of sexual ecstasy.
This inaccurate portrayal can lead to today’s teens and 20-somethings believing that there’s something wrong with them if they can’t climax to order. The truth, however, is that most of them are absolutely normal.
Interestingly, only a generation ago many doctors believed that a high proportion of the female population simply couldn’t climax at all.
Why did they think this way? Simply because most of them had had little or no training in sexual medicine.
Also, the majority of them were so embarrassed about sex themselves that they tried to avoid discussing it with their patients.
Furthermore, since women don’t need to climax in order to conceive, most doctors didn’t rate the importance of the female orgasm very highly.
In a survey we conducted for our book The Big ‘O’, we found that:
47 per cent climaxed for the first time through masturbation
32 per cent through sexual intercourse
20 per cent through petting
1 per cent while sleeping.
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